We have so much freedom, so many opportunities to develop
our unique personalities and talents,
our individual memories, our personalized contributions.
Since there would be no further opportunity to observe the majestic sea,
I tried to imagine the glorious panorama the brilliant sun would later create.
As I watched this magnificent scene in reverence, a window formed in the clouds;
the glistening rays of the rising sun broke through the overcast sky,
transforming everything with its luminescence, its color, its life.
It was as if the Lord wanted to share an additional blessing,
a symbol of the light of His teachings that gives brilliance
and hope to everyone it touches.
Tears of gratitude formed for this wondrous world in which we live,
for the extraordinary beauty our Heavenly Father so freely shares
with all who are willing to see.
Truly, life is beautiful.
How long has it been since you watched the sun set?
The departing rays kissing the clouds, trees, hills, and lowlands good night,
sometimes tranquilly, sometimes with exuberant bursts of color and form.
What of the wonder of a cloudless night
when the Lord unveils the marvels of His heavens
—the twinkling stars, the moonlight rays—
to ignite our imagination with His greatness and glory?
How captivating to watch a seed planted in fertile soil germinate,
gather strength, and send forth a tiny, seemingly insignificant sprout.
Patiently it begins to grow and develop its own character led by the genetic code
the Lord has provided to guide its development.
With care it surely will become what it is destined to be:
a lily, crowned with grace and beauty; a fragrant spearmint plant;
a peach; an avocado;
or a beautiful blossom with unique delicacy, hue, and fragrance.
When last did you observe a tiny rosebud form?
Each day it develops new and impressive character, more promise of beauty
until it becomes a majestic rose. You are one of the noblest of God’s creations.
His intent is that your life be gloriously beautiful regardless of your circumstances.
As you are grateful and obedient, you can become all that God intends you to be.
I do not minimize how hard some of these events are.
They can extend over a long period of time, but they should not be allowed to
become the confining center of everything you do.
The Lord inspired Lehi to declare the fundamental truth,
“Men are, that they might have joy.” 1
That is a conditional statement: “they might have joy.”
It is not conditional for the Lord. His intent is that each of us finds joy.
It will not be conditional for you as you obey the commandments,
have faith in the Master,
and do the things that are necessary to have joy here on earth.
and His holy Son, your conviction that their plan of happiness
truly can bring you joy.
Pondering their doctrine will let you enjoy the beauties of this earth
and enrich your relationships with others.
It will lead you to the comforting, strengthening experiences
that flow from prayer to Father in Heaven and the answers He gives in return.
Cast on the ground, it is seen in perspective.
Likewise, problems or trials in our lives need to be viewed
in the perspective of scriptural doctrine.
Otherwise they can easily overtake our vision, absorb our energy,
and deprive us of the joy and beauty the Lord intends us to receive here on earth.
Some people are like rocks thrown into a sea of problems.
They are drowned by them.
Be a cork.
When submerged in a problem, fight to be free to bob up
to serve again with happiness.
It is not to be endlessly entertained or to be constantly in full pursuit of pleasure.
You are here to be tried, to prove yourself so that you can receive
the additional blessings God has for you. 2
The tempering effect of patience is required. 3
Some blessings will be delivered here in this life; others will come beyond the veil.
The Lord is intent on your personal growth and development.
That progress is accelerated when you willingly allow Him to lead you
through every growth experience you encounter,
whether initially it be to your individual liking or not.
When you trust in the Lord, when you are willing to let your heart and your mind
be centered in His will, when you ask to be led by the Spirit to do His will,
you are assured of the greatest happiness along the way
and the most fulfilling attainment from this mortal experience.
If you question everything you are asked to do,
or dig in your heels at every unpleasant challenge,
you make it harder for the Lord to bless you. 4
is not given so that you can get what you want.
This divine gift is provided so that you will choose
what your Father in Heaven wants for you.
That way He can lead you to become all that He intends you to be. 5
That path leads to glorious joy and happiness.
who have made peace with their challenges
and live with joy amid adversity.
A lovely woman with an aggressive terminal disease
consistently found joy in life.
She understood the plan of happiness, had received the temple ordinances,
and was doing her best to qualify for the promised blessings.
Her personal journal records: “It is a beautiful fall day.
I picked up the mail and sat down on the swing.
I was so happy and content in the warm sun,
the sweet smell of nature and the trees around me.
I just sat and gloried in the fact that I am still alive on this beautiful earth. …
The Lord is so good to me. How I thank him that I am still here and feeling so good.
I am soooooo happy I just want to shout and dance through this beautiful house
as the sun streams into the big windows. I love being alive.”
spent untold hours laboriously completing a large,
challenging needlepoint work of art.
It was a gift to a couple experiencing trials.
For the couple it is a priceless treasure, a constant reminder of the precious fruits
of resolute effort in the face of adversity, an enduring message of hope
bound in the bonds of pure love and willing sacrifice.
Children haven’t yet learned to be depressed
by concentrating on the things they don’t have.
They find joy in what is available to them.
I remember a small boy playing along a riverbank.
He had tied a piece of fishing line to the ends of two discarded soft-drink cans.
He threw one can over a limb, then filled it with water.
He would pull on the other can, then let it go.
The weight of the first can would draw the second one up as it fell.
He laughed and danced with glee.
They can be safety valves to keep the tension down and the spirit up.
Don’t concentrate on what you don’t have or have lost.
The Lord promised the obedient to share all that He possesses with them.
You may temporarily lack here, but in the next life,
if you prove yourself worthy by living valiantly,
a fulness will be your blessing.
in the wisdom of the Lord,
He deprives you of something you very much want.
To the sightless or hearing impaired, He sharpens the other senses.
To the ill, He gives patience, understanding,
and increased appreciation for others’ kindness.
With the loss of a dear one,
He deepens the bonds of love, enriches memories,
and kindles hope in a future reunion.
You will discover compensatory blessings
when you willingly accept the will of the Lord
and exercise faith in Him. 6
“I will also ease the burdens …
that even you cannot feel them upon your backs … ;
and this will I do that ye may stand as witnesses for me hereafter,
and that ye may know of a surety that I,
the Lord God, do visit my people in their afflictions.
yea, the Lord did strengthen them
that they could bear up their burdens with ease,
and they did submit cheerfully and with patience
to all the will of the Lord” (Mosiah 24:13–15).
After their noble husbands were called home, Sisters Camilla Kimball,
Amelia McConkie, and Helen Richards learned to paint.
They not only leave legacies of art, but they will never see a sunset,
a face, or a tree the same again.
They now perceive subtle nuances of color and form and
rejoice in the abounding beauty around them.
Being creative will help you enjoy life.
It engenders a spirit of gratitude.
It develops latent talent, sharpens your capacity to reason, to act,
and to find purpose in life.
It dispels loneliness and heartache.
It gives a renewal, a spark of enthusiasm, and zest for life.
President Kimball said: “God does notice us, and he watches over us.
But it is usually through another mortal that he meets our needs.
Therefore, it is vital that we serve each other.” 7
Each morning she would ask her Father in Heaven to lead her
to someone she could help.
That sincere prayer was answered time and again.
The burdens of many were eased and their lives brightened.
She was blessed continually for being an instrument directed by the Lord.
even those that come from our own negligence
or even transgression, can be turned by the Lord into growth experiences,
a virtual ladder upward. 8
I certainly do not recommend transgression as a path to growth.
It is painful, difficult, and so totally unnecessary.
It is far wiser and so much easier to move forward in righteousness.
But through proper repentance, faith in the Lord Jesus Christ,
and obedience to His commandments, even the disappointment that comes
from transgression can be converted into a return to happiness.
- • Ponder the scriptures to understand the plan of happiness.
- • Pray with faith in Jesus Christ.
- • Love and serve others.
- • Receive the temple ordinances. Return to bless others.
- • Listen to the prophet and obey his counsel.
- • Be grateful for what you have.
- • Smile more.
Sadness never ends, but happiness does.
I witness that with faith in the Savior and obedience to His teachings,
happiness never ends, but sadness does.
it should not take over your life and be the center of all your interest.
Challenges are growth experiences,
temporary scenes to be played out on the background of a pleasant life.
Don’t become so absorbed in a single event that
you can’t think of anything else or care for yourself
or for those who depend upon you.
Remember, much like the mending of the body,
the healing of some spiritual and emotional challenges takes time.
but endure them, for, lo, I am with thee, even unto the end of thy days.” 9
As you are patient, you will come to understand what the statement
“I am with thee” means. God’s love brings peace and joy.
Remember you are on a journey to exaltation.
Sometimes you have experiences that yield more happiness than others,
but it all has purpose with the Lord. 10
any you feel may have offended you.
If there is transgression, repent of it,
that the Master may heal you.
for the plan of happiness
and the gospel principles upon which it is based.
Be grateful for the ordinances and the covenants they have provided.
I solemnly testify they have power to crown your life with peace and joy,
to give it purpose and meaning.
You will learn that sadness and disappointment are temporary.
Happiness is everlastingly eternal because of Jesus Christ.
I solemnly witness that He lives,
that He loves you, and that He will help you.
In the name of Jesus Christ, amen."