Wednesday, October 27, 2021

You Can Buy Anything in this World with Money

I have been reading some essays written by Hugh Nibley and one in particular has been on my mind.  In his essay he was talking about Lucifer and his tricks and his motto so speak:   "You Can Buy Anything in This World with Money."    That one sentence has been repeating itself over and over in my mind.

Years ago I was going to school for a Business Degree when the Spirit whispered, "You need to go into nursing."  I am so grateful I followed that whisper.   My career as a nurse  has brought me great joy.  As a nurse I make a decent wage but I did not go into nursing for the "money."  I went into nursing because I truly love the adopted grand mas and grand pas that I have the privilege of  caring for.  Their smiles, appreciation and love for me is the greatest gift that no amount of money can buy.

I recently volunteered to work on our COVID unit because of my love for those affected by the disease and because of their love and trust in me in caring for them.  My first day on I was approached by a nurse and asked, "How much more are you getting paid for working back here."  I smiled and replied "I have no idea."  She looked at me as if I was crazy.  "You Can Buy Anything In This World With Money."       

 I received a message from my job offering "bonuses."   I wasn't surprised at the many who responded wanting that extra but as for me I have no interest.   I would rather invest in my Heavenly bonuses.  Brother Nibley shared an insight when Lucifer was selling his motto and there were many who took him up and continue to take him up on his offer but there were and are a few who stood firm and stated, "We have sufficient for our needs."  Like them I'm happy to say "I have sufficient for my needs."

Each night I work I see eyes light up and smiles spread across faces as I hear, "I'm so happy your my nurse."  To which I respond, "I 'm happy that I can be your nurse."  In my minds eye I hear coins dropping into my Heavenly Treasure chest as my heavenly family smiles.  For me there is no greater treasure and no amount of money can buy that.

I recently had the privilege of putting on my hospice nurses hat as I sat with a dear adopted grandpa who was transitioning back to his heavenly home.  When he was called I was the one to notify his son.  Tears were shed and then I received an amazing message from that heartbroken son that  filled my heart with joy.  Another gift that no amount of money can buy.  I look forward to seeing my friend again one day and meeting his son.  "Oh what joy shall fill your hearts."

Yes, there are many things one can buy with money but the greatest things cannot be bought with money for me some of those things are:  Love, Integrity, Loyalty, Character, Honesty, Peace and Happiness.  In closing I found an article by Brother Sill I wanted to share.   My hope is that instead of falling for the line "you can buy anything in this world for money."  we can firmly say "I have sufficient for my needs" as we lay up treasures for ourselves in Heaven.

A Fortune to Share

In the greatest sermon that was ever preached, the greatest man who ever lived gave what was probably the wisest counsel that has ever been given when he said that we should lay up for ourselves treasures in heaven. And that is probably our most profitable idea.

However, the thing that we spend more time doing than about anything else in our lives is laying up for ourselves treasures upon the earth. And that is also a great idea, providing we know how to handle it. Many people have contended for the treasures in heaven on the grounds that they have much greater value, they are a lot more satisfying, they are a lot more permanent. Someone has complained that one of the disadvantages of the treasures of the earth is that you can’t take them with you. Someone else has pointed out that with taxes like they are, you can’t even keep them while you are here. This man put this idea in rhyme. He said:

“You can’t take them with you,

That’s practically sure;

For they’re generally gone,

Quite a long time before you’re.”

Now that may not be very good poetry, but it is a striking idea. And some pessimist has added that even if you could take them with you, they would only melt. However, it seems to me that frequently we spend a lot more time than is necessary in downgrading these great treasures that we get from the earth. We sometimes refer to our medium of exchange by calling it such unsavory names as “filthy lucre” or “tainted money,” and sometimes that may be an accurate description, but it need not necessarily be so.

Somebody said, “Money can’t buy happiness,” but his friend said, “Maybe not, but it does enable one to pick out the particular kind of misery that he enjoys the most.” And someone has pointed out that if there is anyone who can’t buy happiness with money it must be that he just doesn’t know where to shop. We can build temples with money, we can send out missionaries with money, we can erect educational institutions, operate hospitals, and pay our tithing with money. We can feed and clothe our families with money, and in many ways we can build up the kingdom of God with money.

Someone said, “Money ain’t everything,” and his friend said, “Just name me three things that it ain’t.” But we also should think of some of those things that it is. Money is preserved labor, it is industry made negotiable, it is stored up accomplishment. It is the medium of exchange that we can trade for things that we can take with us and a great many of them we can actually send on ahead. We can take our families with us. We can take our education with us. We can take our great character qualities with us. And money is the medium that we can use to share the treasures of the earth with others who need our help.

In 1931, Vashni [H.P.] Young wrote a popular best-seller entitled A Fortune to Share (Bobbs-Merrill). Vashni Young had worked as a salesman during the lush, easy, prosperous years of the late 1920s, and then the market crash of October 1929 had plunged Vashni Young, with a few million other people, into the bottomless economic pit of the early 1930s. But he did not like the depression and he had become pretty sour on this world generally. And so he bought a gun and decided to have a look at the next world by committing suicide. But before he pulled the trigger, he spent a little time thinking about his wife and children and he decided that suicide was not a very manly way to solve a problem. And so instead of shooting himself, he did a little analyzing and he discovered that his mind had been operating like a giant junk factory, turning out all kinds of mental, emotional, and spiritual junk.

Then he remembered William James, the great Harvard psychologist who said, “The greatest discovery of my generation is that you can change your circumstances by changing your attitudes of mind.” And while everybody wants to change his circumstances, Vash Young decided to change himself. He said: “I got tired of being a fool.” He wanted to get out of the junk business and so he dumped overboard a lot of his bad habits of liquor, tobacco, and irresponsibility. He decided to adopt some good attitudes, think like a man, be responsible, and go to work.

It wasn’t long before Vash Young discovered that life was much more pleasant and that his prosperity level was going up by leaps and bounds. And then he made a great discovery that he had personal possession of a vast fortune which he could share with every other person in the world without lessening his own supply.

He wrote his great book, A Fortune to Share, and gave it as wide a circulation as possible, telling people about his discovery. Then he set aside one day each week which he called “trouble day” during which he worked with other troubled people trying to persuade them to get out of the junk business and share in this great fortune which was so readily available.

If I were asked to give the best idea of which I am capable, it would be closely related to this, that we should get out of the junk business and then start laying up treasures in heaven by sharing with others that vast fortune which each of us has or can get possession of.

Yesterday President Rex D. Pinegar mentioned Patrick Henry, one of our early American patriots who lived a long, useful, and successful life. Just before his death he said, “I have now finished distributing all of my property to my children. However, there is one more thing that I wish I could give them, and that is the Christian religion. If I could give them that, though I had not given them a single shilling, they would be rich. And if they did not have that, though I had given them the whole world, they would be poor.”

I hold in my hand a copy of the Holy Bible. In this is written the word of the Lord. It contains the covenants that he has made and would like to make with every person who has lived or who ever will live upon the earth. This book gives an account of one occasion some 34 centuries ago when the God of creation came down on to the top of Mt. Sinai in a cloud of fire, and to the accompaniment of the lightnings and thunders of that sacred mountain gave us the Ten Commandments, in which he enumerated ten ways that we can get out of the junk business. Just think what would happen in our world if we all fully observed the Ten Commandments. That would mean that we would stop cheating and lying and stealing and killing and being immoral and violating the Sabbath day. Then this earth would soon be God’s paradise and our material prosperity would go up like a skyrocket. The Lord has also included in the Bible a great credenda of those soul-saving truths that we can share with other people. The Bible is the Lord’s own fortune-to-share book.

As Sir Walter Scott lay dying, he said to his son-in-law, “Lockhart, read to me from the book.” His son-in-law said, “Which book?” Sir Walter said, “Lockhart, there is only one book. Read to me from the book.”

But in our own day, the Lord has given to the world three great volumes of new scripture outlining in every detail the simple principles of the gospel of Christ, with a “thus saith the Lord” attached to each one. Therefore, the Lord now has four fortune-to-share books.

However, one of the shortcomings of even the holy scriptures is that they are not automatic. That is, they will not work unless we do. More than anything else the great message of the Lord needs messengers. The Lord has invited us to have as large a share as we like in his important family concern which Jesus referred to as “my Father’s business.” Now that is the business of building integrity and character and righteousness and eternal life into the lives of his children. The Lord has told us many things about the importance of the family. He has given us this miraculous power of procreation where we can create children in God’s own image and share with them the tremendous blessings of life itself. Then during our family home evenings we may share with them the great treasures of the gospel of salvation. And through the missionary program we can share the blessings of eternal life with all of our friends and neighbors. God has promised us that if we will effectively be his messengers he will share his fortune with both those who give it and those who receive it.

In speaking of the oath and covenant of the priesthood, he has said:

“For he that receiveth my servants receiveth me;

“And he that receiveth me receiveth my Father;

“And he that receiveth my Father receiveth my Father’s kingdom; therefore all that my Father hath shall be given unto him.” (D&C 84:36–38.) If you can think of something more exciting than that, I don’t know what it would be.

God is a very wealthy personage. We all like to inherit from a wealthy parent and what could be more exciting than to inherit from God, to get everything that God has. Someone has said that thrift is a great virtue, especially in an ancestor. And God has been very thrifty, he has also been very wise and he has been very generous. To begin with, he created us in his own image and has endowed us with a set of his attributes and potentialities, the development of which is one of the purposes for which we live. He desires that every one of us should be rich. He has said: “… the fulness of the earth is yours …” (D&C 59:16), and it pleaseth God that he has given all these things unto men to be used with judgment and thanksgiving. He has shared with us the fulness of the treasures of the earth and he desires to share with us the fulness of the treasures of heaven. He wants us to inherit the celestial kingdom and belong to that celestial order of which he himself is a member. And he has said that the greatest of all the gifts of God is the gift of eternal life in his presence.

And so we come back to the place where we began and hear again those great words as they come down to us from the mount in which the Lord of Hosts has said, “… lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven. …” (Matt. 6:20.)

And that we may be fully successful in this greatest of all enterprises, I humbly pray in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

Saturday, October 16, 2021

Loving Ourselves

 I had the privilege  of  spending some quality time in the Sacred Grove.  It was amazing!!!!!!  The atmosphere there sunk deep in to my heart and deep down it has changed me.

Upon returning home I have been reflecting on the second commandment:  "Love thy neighbor as thyself."  I listened to General Conference and found so many of the talks were based on "Christ like love, and becoming more Christ like."  As I have been reflecting on all the above I recently had a light bulb moment.  How can you love your neighbor as yourself if you do not truly love yourself?

I shared this insight with a friend and we both started thinking about the truthfulness of my light bulb moment.  I have been on a wonderful journey for over 20 some years and each year I am learning and growing but the last couple years I have felt that there is one thing the Lord really would like me to learn but as the Parable of the Crystal Stair Case points out I am holding on to some baggage that I just don't want to let go off.  I know in my heart if I would let go of that baggage a whole new wonderful world would open up to me but here I am stubbornly holding on and stomping my foot.

Like many woman I have met and interacted with over the years I have realized that many of us do not truly love ourselves.  We are critical of ourselves we're to fat, to short, not pretty, have ugly faces, hate our hair the list could go on and on.  As I listen I am saddened by their false insights of who they feel they are.  Looking at them I see a beautiful daughter that our Father in Heaven created and gave  amazing talents which so many are not aware of;  But then I'll start listing my faults of where I fall short.  

When I was younger I hated my hair it was thick and I would get headaches and nose bleeds.  Then to top it off I was born a Burnette when everyone knew blondes had all the fun.  Now in my late fifties with silver white hair I am joking that for the first time in my life I am in style because kids are paying big bucks to get my hair color and I'm al natural.  I have received many compliments on my hair and how people wished they had "all my hair."  A wonderful blessing which our Father in Heaven blessed me with but has taken years for me to appreciate and love.

My mother being my mother whom I love dearly was always critical of my weight maybe because she also had been overweight.  Like many woman I strove for that "Perfect weight."  (Which I never did find because I was always considered overweight due to I was never a size 2)  For a moment in my teen years I found a weight I was happy with and I worked out to maintain that weight but even then I had moments I felt I needed to lose more.  Then as I aged and health aliments hit I found my weight ballooning.  I cannot work out like I use to due to physical limitations and I do occasionally emotionally eat.  (that is another post)  but I'm coming to peace that even though I am overweight, my heart is in good condition, I do not have diabetes or other health aliments and for my age I am pretty healthy.  A tender mercy from  our Father in Heaven in which I am still learning to embrace.  I'm trying to watch my diet so I can shed a few pounds and I walk and bike for some exercise.  But here is one area where I do not truly love myself.

We as women love to gossip.  I have heard this saying so many times, "Woman are like hens in a  henhouse."  Ever since Elder Uchdorf gave his talk on gossip and his pearl of "stop it!"  I have been trying to stay out of the hen house so to speak but as a friend shared with me, "I hate the whisperings because I know their talking about me."  Michael S Wilcox's book concerning questions the Savior asked came into my mind "what is that to ye...."  He started off the story about us all wanting to be in everybody's business when as the Savior pointed out, it's none of our business.  It is between Him and them.  So, I shared with my friend that insight and why should she care.  It just showed their ignorance and in the grand scheme what did it matter to her, after all they aren't a friend and who would want friends like that anyway.  I then ended with after all you have me lol.  

My friend knows I struggle with that also but I am daily trying to change my perception.  We all want to fit in and be a part.  I spent most my life trying to become who my peers wanted me to be just to fit in but it caused many issues, heartaches and self loathing.

Maybe because I am now officially middle aged and with the help of a loving Heavenly Father trying to become comfortable and love the person He created me to be.  I know I have a ways to go but each day as I strive to love my neighbor as myself.  I am learning to love myself a little more.  After Heavenly Father does not make mistakes and all His creations are beautiful.

In closing I wanted to share these lyrics from Mercy River "Beautiful for Me:"


BEAUTIFUL FOR ME

(Nichole Nordeman)

Every girl young and old has to face her own reflection

Twirl around, stare it down

What’s the mirror gonna say

With some luck, you’ll measure up

But you might not hold a candle to the rest

“Is that your best?” says the mirror the mess

But there’s a whisper in the noise

Can you hear a little voice and He says

 

Has anybody told you you’re beautiful?

You might agree if you could see what I see, oh

‘Cuz everything about you is incredible

You should have seen me smile the day that I made you

Beautiful for me

 

If it’s true beauty lies in the eye of the beholder

I want my life and what’s inside

To give Him something to behold

I want a heart that’s captivating

I wanna hear my Father saying...

 

Has anybody told you you’re beautiful?

You might agree if you could see what I see, oh

‘Cuz everything about you is incredible

You should have seen me smile the day that I made you

Beautiful for me

 

Close your eyes

Look inside

Let me see the you that you’ve been trying to hide

Long ago, I made you so very beautiful

So I ought to know you’re beautiful

 

Has anybody told you you’re beautiful?

You might agree if you could see what I see, oh

‘Cuz everything about you is incredible

You should have seen me smile the day that I made you

Beautiful for me

You’re so beautiful

Beautiful for me

So beautiful for me

Has anybody told you?

Saturday, October 2, 2021

Be You

 Last week I was shopping at one of our local stores and I had on one of my tye dye shirts which said:  




I was distracted thinking about who knows what when the sweet young cashier said, "I don't want to be me.  I want to be anyone but me."  Startled from my distracted thoughts I glanced at her saddened by her comment and realizing there was a few customers behind me I replied, "I would love to be rich and live on my own tropical island where I didn't have to deal with people." 

 Not a charitable comment for me to make.  I was frustrated that instead of making a positive comment about being you, I made a mean comment.  Which saddened me because  I allowed ugly world events to take my focus.

Today I have been thinking about that young lady and I'm still saddened that she does not want to be her.  I wish I had shared with her, "There is nothing wrong with you being you.  You have such a beautiful face and smile."  ""Always remember, you are beautiful."
 

I spent most my life trying to become someone other than me.  Compared to others "beautiful ladies" there was me plain and plump.  I remember once hearing a story about a teacher who according to societies definition was plain and drab with no striking features.  But she had a kind heart and a big smile which rolled across her face.  The speaker went on to say that many years later he ran in to this beautiful woman whose smile filled his heart with warmth and whose eyes sparkled.  He noted that she was truly beautiful.  As they visited he was shocked to learn that the beautiful woman standing before him was that plain and drab teacher.  He then made this profound comment,  "As you age the beauty of your heart will reflect on your outer countenance and the hatred or ugliness of your hear in turn will show in your outer countenance.  As I have grown older I have seen the truthfulness of his words.  Woman who society deems beautiful appear haggard and older looking and then plastic looking as they rush to plastic surgery to try and retain the beauty of their by gone youth.  My beloved mother comes to mind at the age of 90 she looked beautiful and years younger than her physical age.  I have in my career come across many like her that grow younger and more beautiful as they age and those who age faster than their physical age.

What I have gleaned from this morning's conference session is that so many do not know who they truly are.  Last week I went to NY.  I was deeply saddened by what I saw and those who were doing their best day to day.  I visited with many and received compliments on my "Be Kind and Blessed" wear.  I smiled at everyone I met and complimented them for who they were and thanked them for the little things that they had done for me to ensure my safety and blessed my life for allowing me to spend time with them.  There was one housekeeper in particular that I wish I would have left a little something.  I don't know why but she truly touched my heart.

Year ago I came across a song by Michel McCLean called:  I've Got to Find Out Who I Am."  His lyrics spoke to me and I found myself giving a talk about finding out who you truly are.  We are all children of a loving Heavenly Father who wants nothing more than to bless us and join with us in each of our successes.  He wants to wipe our tears and comfort us when life is unkind but most of all He wants us to love Him so that He can show us who we truly are.

In closing I would like share Michael's inspired words and may they speak to you as they did me.

I've Got to Find Out Who I Am

Seminary Music: Old Testament

The melody’s familiar,

I’ve heard this song before.

It’s been around the thousand years,

Or maybe even more.

And everybody’s sung it,

At least I think they’ve tried,

But even when the singing’s done

This song goes on inside.

I’ve got to find out who I am  

I’ve got to find out who I am

Got to know. And got to see what’s making me, me

I’ve got to when I do I know I’ll be what I can

When I find out who I am.

I’ll be all I can.

When I find out who I am.

And when I do know

I’ll be what I can.

When I find out who I am.

I’ll be all I can.

When I find out who I am.


Text: Michael McLean

Music: Michael McLean

Arranged By: Bill Evans

Artist: Liz Draper

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